How to Meet the Unconscious Masculine Leader
Yesterday, Russia invaded Ukraine. Putin, as an example of an Unconscious Masculine Leader, invaded a modern democracy in the West with military power. I experienced both a shock, being concerned about the people of Ukraine, and also a reminder that I’ve been wary about Putin ever since I got back to Sweden almost seven years ago. A similar fear I experience sensing Xi, Trump and most of the male leaders in the Middle East and Africa. Essentially aggressive males living out the unconscious masculine at a pre-modern level of development (compared with a post-modern and meta-modern level).
I wrote a headier piece first, seeing more of where the world is heading, having always been interested in global geo-politics. But I also realized that the fear is only present when I go into my mind, looking at different scenarios of potential dystopian futures. Which still might happen in the short-term; I’m spiritual but also a pragmatic realist. Yet if I return to my body, feeling presence in my arms and legs, feeling my belly, sensing my jewel (pussy) there is no fear. Just a pleasant and simple hereness.
But what do we do when we encounter the Unconscious Masculine, most likely not at this level of aggression, yet still where fear arises in us? Or maybe not even fear, just feeling uncomfortable or that we collapse?
When we are in embodied presence, when our Strength, our red essence which also is a heart quality, and Power, our black essence, are awake and accessible, (the red essence expressed as courage, discernment and as an aspect of our sexual energy, and the black essence, expressed as stillness and a black panther wild power energy), we move out of our fear/collapsed state. We are then capable of setting clear boundaries, naming our needs and wants, and we can call in the Conscious Masculine and ask for his support. We can also call out the Unconscious Masculine, not by shaming or blaming him, but by letting him know that there is an absolute no, that there are limits and boundaries with real consequences. Obviously difficult in an ongoing war, yet we shape our reality moment by moment. The more we are in our Awakened Feminine Leadership, the better we get at asking for and creating what we want and saying no to what we don’t want. The only reason the Unconscious Masculine is allowed to rule is because there isn’t enough of the Conscious & Embodied Feminine present calling in what she and She want.
And for that to happen, a sisterhood of women aware and awake to our Feminine Leadership, in embodied pleasure, power and in and as presence, is needed. From there anything is possible. Our call will be that strong, that irresistible, and together with the Conscious Masculine, we can co-create a unitive flow of expansion, taking us to the next level of human evolution. If this calls you, I would love to have you join us on this journey!
